We're here, we're queer and/or related identities, and we're pretty sweet.
Please follow the guidelines laid out in the Community Covenant, available to read here: community-covenant.net/version/1/0
i.e. be excellent to each other.
If you have a proposal for a rule change or other votable, first make a post to discuss it - people might have edit suggestions that make them more likely to vote for it. Leave the discussion post up for seven days to make sure people have a chance to participate and reach a consensus, then take it to the vote.